Postpartum Therapy in San Diego, CA
Therapy for Infertility, Pregnancy, Birth Trauma, Postpartum Depression & Anxiety
Virtual Therapy Services throughout California
Let go of the pressure. Start enjoying life again.
Postpartum & Anxiety Therapy for adults throughout California who are ready to feel calmer, more present, and more connected to the people and moments that matter most.
Life Can Feel Overwhelming
And You Don’t Have To Face It Alone
Virtual Postpartum & Anxiety Therapy Throughout California
Your mind never seems to slow down. You’re replaying conversations, worrying about the future, putting yourself last, and wondering if you’re doing enough. Deep down, you’re craving more peace and a lot less pressure.
Therapy is a place where you don’t have to hold it all together. Together, we'll quiet the overthinking, build healthier boundaries, and create space for you to move through life with greater clarity, self-trust, and ease.
I am currently accepting new clients!
I offer morning and daytime sessions for residents throughout California.
You’re trying so hard to hold everything together, even when it’s leaving you completely drained…
✦ You're constantly overthinking, replaying conversations, or worrying about what could go wrong.
✦ You feel overwhelmed and exhausted, but still think you’re not doing enough.
✦ You take care of everyone else, and just the thought of slowing down or taking time for yourself feels selfish.
✦ You put so much pressure on yourself to get everything right, yet still worry you're letting people down.
You’ve gotten really good at pushing through, but you’re tired of carrying everything on your own. You deserve support, too.
From surviving each day…
to feeling more present in your life
Imagine moving from:
⟡ A mind that never slows down
→ To feeling calmer and more grounded in the present
⟡ Feeling overwhelmed by everything on your plate
→ Trusting yourself and your decisions
⟡ Feeling disconnected from yourself and the people you love
→ Feeling more present, connected, and able to show up for the people and things that matter most.
Meet Koalani Lahr, LMFT
Postpartum & Anxiety Therapist in San Diego, CA
Virtual Therapy available throughout California
Aloha, I’m Koalani. I work with adults who are used to holding everything together—the ones who show up for everyone else, keep pushing through, and rarely make space for themselves. But underneath it all, you may feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or wonder why things feel so hard.
I know how easy it is to lose yourself while caring for everyone else. That’s why I believe healing doesn’t come from trying harder or doing more. It comes from slowing down, making space for what you’re carrying, and learning to respond to yourself with the same kindness you so freely offer everyone else.
Therapy is a space where you don’t have to have it all together. A place where you can feel supported, understood, and able to slow down and reconnect with what matters most.
Meaningful Therapy For Authentic Living
Therapy Services
THERAPY FOR PREGNANCY & POSTPARTUM
You expected this season to feel different, but instead you're overwhelmed, anxious, exhausted, or wondering why it feels so hard. Whether you're navigating infertility, pregnancy, postpartum, birth trauma, or the transition into parenthood, you don't have to carry it alone.
THERAPY FOR ANXIETY
Your mind never seems to turn off—you replay conversations, second-guess yourself, and feel responsible for keeping everything together. Together, we'll help you quiet the overthinking, ease the pressure, and feel more grounded and confident.
MULTICULTURAL & BIPOC THERAPY
You shouldn't have to explain or minimize the parts of your identity that shape your experience. Together, we'll honor your cultural background, lived experiences, and values while creating space for healing that feels authentic to you.
MINDFULNESS THERAPY
When your mind is constantly racing, it's easy to get stuck in self-criticism, worry, and overwhelm. Mindfulness helps you slow down, respond with intention instead of reacting, and build a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
What My Clients Have Said
“Koalani has made such a difference in improving my mental health in a short period of time. I’m grateful to have her as a therapist.”
“I was nervous about starting therapy, but almost immediately felt comfortable with Koalani. She is insightful and warm and has already taught me helpful strategies.”
“Absolutely amazing, so grateful for having found her.”
I Offer A Free 15 Minute Consultation
Not sure if therapy is the right fit? A free 15-minute consultation gives us a chance to connect, talk about what you're looking for, and see if working together feels like a good fit.
Frequently Asked Questions
You already have enough on your plate. I’ve gathered these FAQs to help make the logistics of starting therapy as simple and transparent as possible. If there is anything else on your mind, please don’t hesitate to ask.
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My fee is $200 for a 50-minute session.
I accept all major credit cards, as well as HSA (Health Savings Account) and FSA (Flexible Spending Account) cards.
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My practice is 100% virtual, serving adults throughout California. Virtual therapy offers flexibility and accessibility without the need to commute. You can show up exactly as you are—infants, breastfeeding, and bottle-feeding are always welcome in our virtual space.
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Infants, breastfeeding, and bottle-feeding are always welcome. My practice is built to support the realities of parenthood, not add to your stress. I’ve had plenty of sessions where contact naps were involved.
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I am an out-of-network mental health provider and do not bill insurance directly.
I can provide a superbill that you may submit to your insurance company for potential out-of-network reimbursement. Coverage varies by plan, so I recommend contacting your insurance provider to ask about your out-of-network mental health benefits.
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Our first session is a chance for us to get to know each other. We'll review your intake paperwork, talk about what's bringing you to therapy, discuss your goals, and explore what support you're looking for. My goal is to understand your story and help you feel comfortable as we begin working together.
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I’m so glad that you’re considering giving me a call!
The best way to begin is by scheduling a complimentary 15-minute consultation. This is a low-pressure opportunity for us to connect, talk about what you're looking for, and see if we’re a good fit. Schedule your consultation here.
You can also reach me at 619.859.5551 or koalani.lahr.lmft@gmail.com
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Contact Information
koalani.lahr.lmft@gmail.com
Call or Text (619) 859-5551
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Koalani Lahr, LMFT
Postpartum & Anxiety Therapist in San Diego CA
Virtual Therapy throughout California:
You don’t have to squeeze another appointment into an already packed day. You have enough on your plate! Whether you’re looking for a quiet moment between naps or connecting after a long day, you can access specialized postpartum therapy right from your couch. Virtual therapy lets you receive deeply compassionate, expert care from anywhere in California—completely on your terms.
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I work with clients across the entire state. Even if your specific town isn't listed below, we can absolutely work together as long as you live anywhere in California!
Southern California: San Diego, Los Angeles, Orange County, La Jolla, Del Mar, Carlsbad, Oceanside, Escondido, Encinitas, Chula Vista, La Mesa, Point Loma, Temecula, Laguna Beach, Newport Beach, Anaheim, Irvine, Long Beach, Santa Monica, Culver City, Pasadena, Glendale, Santa Barbara, Riverside, San Bernadino.
Northern California & Bay Area: San Francisco, San Jose, Oakland, Sacramento, Palo Alto, Berkeley, Walnut Creek, San Mateo, San Rafael, Santa Cruz, Fresno, Bakersfield, Modesto, Santa Rosa, Nevada City…and all surrounding communities.